Buxtehude

Zum Wohle des Kindes: Wenn Eltern sich nicht einigen können

Lesedauer: 7 Minuten

Das Buxtehuder Amtsgericht entscheidet immer öfter über Umgangs- und Sorgerecht für Kinder, weil Eltern sich nicht einigen können.

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