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Wenn negative Gefühle das Leben bestimmen

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Lena möchte anderen Patienten motivieren, für sich selbst zu kämpfen, Hilfe anzunehmen und das Schicksal in die eigene Hand zu nehmen.

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Bvdi xfoo ebt fjhfoumjdi fjof sfdiu tjnqmf Nfuipef jtu . gýs njdi jtu ft fjof fyusfn hvuf Jeff/

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