Interview

Streitkultur: "Ein Gewitter bereinigt nichts"

Lesedauer: 5 Minuten

Mehr als nur ein Donnerwetter: Erst der richtige Umgang mit einem Streit bringt die Kommunikation voran, sagt Trainerin Roswitha Stratmann.

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