Corona: Wie Beziehungen die Pandemie überstehen

27.02.2021, 16:32

Beziehungen

Corona: Wie die Liebe eine Pandemie übersteht

Lesedauer: 6 Minuten

Petra Koruhn

Es gibt Singles, die mit ihrem Dasein als alleinlebende Personen rundum zufrieden sind. Viele Menschen wären allerdings lieber in einer Beziehung. Woran es liegt, dass sie Single sind und wie sich die Gründe für ein Single-Dasein bei Männern und Frauen unterscheiden.

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Erzwungene Nähe in der Pandemie stellt Beziehungen auf eine harte Probe. Bestseller Autor Michael Nast sagt, wie die Liebe halten kann.

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