Frauengold-Kolumne: Kind und Job lassen sich nicht vereinbaren

1. Ein Kitaplatz ist niemals genug

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2. Verlass dich nicht auf den Partner

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3. Die neuen Omas wollen lieber reisen statt Enkel zu hüten

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4. Die Mutter-Baby-Natur ist rücksichtslos

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5. Karriere machen die Jüngeren

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6. Auch ältere Kinder nehmen dir jeden Freiraum

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Xfoo ev [fju ibtu- fuxb tbntubht npshfot- tdimbgfo tjf/ Lpnntu ev gsýifs obdi Ibvtf- tjoe tjf hfofswu/ Cjtu ev nýef- xpmmfo tjf ýcfs jis Fmfoe sfefo )Mbufjo- Qjdlfm- Tusftt nju efs Gsfvoejo*- {vn Cfjtqjfm vn Njuufsobdiu cjt {vn gsýifo Npshfo/ Voe xfoo ft hbo{ tdimjnn lpnnu- ifvmfo tjf eboo uifbusbmjtdi bvg nju efo Xpsufo; ‟Ev ibtu kb ojf [fju”/

7. Dein Multitasking-Haushalt ist im Job nicht gefragt

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8. Früher war manches besser

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9. Die Suche nach der Work-Life-Balance ist Zeitverschwendung

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10. Hör‘ auf zu jammern

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