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Pubertät: Was Comedian und Pädagoge Jung Eltern rät

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Immer gegen alles sein: Pubertierende sind nur schwer zu ertragen.

Immer gegen alles sein: Pubertierende sind nur schwer zu ertragen.

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„Dein Ernst, Mama?!“ heißt das Buch für Eltern von Matthias Jung. Darin gibt er Tipps und empfiehlt: „Nichts persönlich nehmen!“

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Teenager rebellieren nur auf geliebten Terrain

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Schreiduelle sind keine Lösung

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