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So wirken Sie positiv auf andere Menschen

Lesedauer: 4 Minuten

Foto: Herkenrath

Wie man andere Menschen von sich und einem Thema überzeugen kann, erklärt Trainer Lutz Herkenrath am 25. März an der Hamburger Uni.

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