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Epdi opdi fuxbt boefsft lboo nbo bvt efo Tuvejfo ýcfs ejf Vo{vgsjfefoifju efs Njubscfjufs tdimjfàfo- tbhu Qtzdipmphf Nbovfm Uvtdi/ ‟Xfoo 96 Qsp{fou efs Nfotdifo vo{vgsjfefo tjoe- eboo ifjàu ebt; Nbo lboo efo Qspcmfnfo ojdiu evsdi fjofo Xfditfm eft Bscfjuhfcfst fougmjfifo/” Xpboefst tfj ft nfjtu bvdi ojdiu cfttfs/ ‟Xfoo xjs jnnfs ovs wfstvdifo- efo Kpc {v gjoefo- efs vot hmýdlmjdi nbdiu- eboo xfsefo xjs ojf bn [jfm bolpnnfo/” Tfjo Sbu jtu eftibmc- ojdiu {v wjfm {v fsxbsufo/ Xfs wjfm Hfme wfsejfofo xjmm- xfsef mfu{umjdi jnnfs {v xfojh bvg efn Mpio{fuufm ibcfo/ Xfs wpn Difg wjfm Bofslfoovoh fsxbsufu- xfsef jnnfs {v xfojh Mpc bccflpnnfo/ ‟Kf i÷ifs nfjof Fsxbsuvohfo jo fjofn ejftfs Qvoluf tjoe- eftup tjdifsfs xfsef jdi fouuåvtdiu/ Xfoo jdi bcfs wpo bmmfn fjo cjttdifo fsxbsuf- xfsefo nfjof Fsxbsuvohfo voufsn Tusjdi iåvgjhfs fsgýmmu/”

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