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Knigge für die Weihnachtsfeier: Das müssen Sie beachten

Lesedauer: 5 Minuten

Zu viel Alkohol trinken, über Kollegen lästern, mit dem Chef knutschen – auf der Weihnachtsparty im Unternehmen warten viele Fettnäpfchen. Das Abendblatt verrät Tipps, wie man sie umgehen kann.

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Einer benimmt sich immer daneben

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Im Extremfall gibt’s eine Abmahnung

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