Klartext: Bestsellerautorin Barbara Sher

"Überlisten Sie innere Widerstände"

Lesedauer: 6 Minuten

Foto: Mindy Stricke

Tipp der Beraterin: Lassen Sie sich von anderen motivieren, trösten und helfen.

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( Interview: Ina Rometsch )