Kummerfeld

Hilfe für Jugendliche und Kinder in Trauer

Lesedauer: 4 Minuten
Natalie Lux
Elena Büsing auf dem Friedhof Kummerfeld am Grab ihres Vaters, der vor einem Jahr starb

Elena Büsing auf dem Friedhof Kummerfeld am Grab ihres Vaters, der vor einem Jahr starb

Foto: Anne Dewitz / HA

Wenn Kinder und Jugendliche Angehörige verlieren, kann „Monjala – Trauerbegleitung“ der Diakonie bei der Bewältigung helfen.

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