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Wie sich die Bestattungskultur verändert

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Stefan Jansing, Friedhofsverwalter des kirchlichen Friedhofs in Garstedt, zeigt Möglichkeiten der Gestaltung moderner Grabanlagen

Stefan Jansing, Friedhofsverwalter des kirchlichen Friedhofs in Garstedt, zeigt Möglichkeiten der Gestaltung moderner Grabanlagen

Foto: Frank Knittermeier / HA

Kirchen und Stadtverwaltungen müssen Friedhofsmarketing betreiben, um gegen die neuen Konkurrenz bestehen zu können.

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