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Kommunikation mit Kindern: Alter, du nervst

Augenrollen, freche Abkürzungen oder gar keine Antwort. Warum ist Kommunikation mit unseren Kindern so schwierig?

Ich habe mir wirklich Mühe gegeben mit der Auswahl meines WhatsApp-Profilbildes. Dezent soll es sein, weltläufig, ein wenig selbstironisch. Man will ja nicht angeben, also weder Sportwagen noch Golftasche. Lieber ein spontanes Foto, ein wenig geheimnisvoll, damit mich die Datensammler mit ihrer Gesichtserkennungssoftware nicht sofort ausspionieren.

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