Meinung
Die wilden Zwanziger

Lebe deinen Traum – ein Abi-Ball mit Folgen

Lesedauer: 4 Minuten
Annabell Behrmann

Das Peter-Pan-Syndrom und die Erkenntnis, dass die Realität kein Disney-Film ist. Ein Plädoyer für mehr Mut.

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