Familienleben

Ganz entspannt durch den Mama-Wahnsinn – geht das?

Lesedauer: 6 Minuten
Camilla John
Autorin Sonja Baum mit ihrem Buch „Mama managed die Corona-Krise“ im Hamburger Abendblatt Studio.

Autorin Sonja Baum mit ihrem Buch „Mama managed die Corona-Krise“ im Hamburger Abendblatt Studio.

Foto: Thorsten Ahlf

Köchin, Putzfrau, Taxifahrerin, Lehrerin – Hamburgerin Sonja Baum hat in ihrer Familie eine neue Struktur eingeführt. Wie das klappt.

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Homeschooling belastetete die Hamburger Familie

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Belohnungssystem für Arbeiten im Haushalt

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Happy-Waffel-Nachmittag mit Schokosauce

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Familienausflüge in Hamburg auch ohne Punkte

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Hamburgerin entwickelt Drei-Minuten-Entspannung

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