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Regenbogenfamilie: Nur Pflegekinder erlaubt

Thomas (r.) und Torsten Böhmer mit ihren Zwillingen im heimischen Garten

Thomas (r.) und Torsten Böhmer mit ihren Zwillingen im heimischen Garten

Foto: Elvira Nickmann / HA

Ein Elternpaar aus Halstenbek ist klassischen Ehepaaren im Adoptionsrecht nicht gleichgestellt, obwohl es im Alltag dasselbe leistet.

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Reaktionen in der Kita sind positiv

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Freundespaar bestärkte sie, Familie zu gründen

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