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Die Kisdorfer Buchautorin Susanna M. Farkas wurde zur Einzelbetreuung von älteren Menschen in den Heimen eingesetzt. Zehn Minuten lang sollte sie die Senioren „aktivieren“, danach war der nächste dran

Die Kisdorfer Buchautorin Susanna M. Farkas wurde zur Einzelbetreuung von älteren Menschen in den Heimen eingesetzt. Zehn Minuten lang sollte sie die Senioren „aktivieren“, danach war der nächste dran

Foto: Petra Dreu / HA

Als Betreuerin hat Susanna M. Farkas in Senioreneinrichtungen gearbeitet. Jetzt hat sie das Erlebte aufgeschrieben.

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