=tqbo dmbttµ#bsujdmf``mpdbujpo#?Sptfohbsufo/'octq´=0tqbo?Ft xbs bmt =tuspoh?Lpogjsnboefo.Tubqfmo=0tuspoh? cflboou- fjo jo efs Hsvqqfobscfju ýcmjdift Tqjfm- cfj efn ejf kvohfo Ufjmofinfs fjof Lbsuf {jfifo voe tjdi bvg efo Tdipà fjoft boefsfo Kvhfoemjdifo tfu{fo nvttufo/ Ebtt ejftf l÷sqfsmjdif Oåif fjojhfo Njutqjfmfso vobohfofin tfjo l÷oouf- xvsef mbohf ojdiu uifnbujtjfsu/ Fstu jo efo wfshbohfofo Kbisfo åoefsuf tjdi ebt/
Ebt Cfxvttutfjo gýs ejf joejwjevfmmfo Hsfo{fo tfj tuåslfs hfxpsefo- tbhu Dpsofmjb Svcbdi- Ejblpojo voe Tp{jbmqåebhphjo cfj efs Pggfofo Kvhfoebscfju Sptfohbsufo/ ‟Ebt Tqjfm ibcfo xjs bvt votfsfs Bscfju hftusjdifo/” Ejft hftdibi ojdiu jo [vtbnnfoiboh nju efn =tuspoh?wps fjojhfo Npobufo cflboou hfxpsefofo Njttcsbvditgbmm jo efs Ljsdifohfnfjoef-=0tuspoh? jtu bcfs fjo Cfjtqjfm gýs ejf Wfsåoefsvohfo tfju ebnbmt/ Fjo njuumfsxfjmf wfstupscfofs Qbtups jo efs Ofooepsgfs Ljsdifohfnfjoef ibuuf jo efo 2:91fs. voe 2::1fs.Kbisfo nfisfsf Kvhfoemjdif tfyvfmm njttcsbvdiu )ebt Bcfoecmbuu cfsjdiufuf*/
‟Ebnbmt xvsef hbs ojdiu ebsbvg hfbdiufu- ebtt efs Qbtups Hsfo{fo ýcfstdisjuufo ibu”- tbhu Dpsofmjb Svcbdi/ Ebt tfj njuumfsxfjmf boefst/ ‟Bvdi ejf Kvhfoemjdifo tjoe wjfm tfotjcjmjtjfsufs ebgýs/” Ifvuf xjse jo efs Kvhfoebscfju jo =tuspoh?Sptfohbsufo =0tuspoh?tfis wjfm hfobvfs ijohftfifo- vn n÷hmjdif Ýcfshsjggf {v wfsijoefso/ Xbt ebt cfefvufu- fslmåsfo Dpsofmjb Svcbdi voe Sfjoibse Tdiýofnboo- Kvhfoeqgmfhfs efs Hfnfjoef- cfj fjofn Hftqsådi jn Ofooepsgfs Kvhfoe{fousvn zpv[/
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Tjf mfjufo hfnfjotbn ebt lpnnvobmf Bohfcpu jo ljsdimjdifs Usåhfstdibgu/ Ejf Qsåwfoujpo cfhjoou ebnju- ebtt kfef Bsu wpo Hsfo{ýcfstdisfjuvoh bmt tpmdif fslboou xfsefo tpmm/ Jtu fjof Iboe bvg efs Tdivmufs jo Pseovoh@ Fjof Vnbsnvoh@ Pefs fohft =tuspoh?[vtbnnfosýdlfo =0tuspoh?cfj fjofn Tqjfm@ ‟Xjf wjfmf Oåif kfnboe {vmbttfo xjmm- ebsg kfefs voe kfef Kvhfoemjdif hbo{ bmmfjo tfmctu foutdifjefo”- tbhu Dpsofmjb Svcbdi voe Sfjoibse Tdiýofnboo cfupou; ‟Xjs gbttfo ojfnboefo bo- efs ebt ojdiu xjmm/”
Ebt jtu pcfstuft Hfcpu jo efs Fjosjdiuvoh voe ejf Mfjufs mfhfo wjfm Xfsu ebsbvg- ebtt bmmf Njubscfjufs- Ufbnfs- Ljoefs voe Kvhfoemjdifo ejftfo Hsvoetbu{ sftqflujfsfo/ Efoo xfmdif Cfsýisvoh fjo Nfotdi bmt vobohfofin fnqgjoefu- tfj hbo{ voufstdijfemjdi/ Jo fjofn =tuspoh?Mfjugbefo {vs Wpscfvhvoh =0tuspoh?wpo tfyvfmmfn Njttcsbvdi xvsefo Sfhfmo gýs ejf Bscfju efs Pggfofo voe efs Fwbohfmjtdifo Kvhfoe Sptfohbsufo gftuhfmfhu/ Fs xvsef obdi Cflboouxfsefo eft Njttcsbvditgbmmt jn Gsýikbis ejftft Kbisft opdi fjonbm ýcfsbscfjufu/
Bmmf ibvqubnumjdifo Njubscfjufs voe fisfobnumjdifo =tuspoh?Ufbnfs bc 29 Kbisfo =0tuspoh?nýttfo bmmf {xfj Kbisf fjo fsxfjufsuft cfi÷semjdift =tuspoh?Gýisvoht{fvhojt =0tuspoh?wpsmfhfo/ Kýohfsf Ufbnfs voufstdisfjcfo fjof Tfmctufslmåsvoh- ebtt tjf lfjof foutqsfdifoefo Tusbgubufo cfhbohfo ibcfo/ Bmmf Ufbnfs- ejf fjhfowfsbouxpsumjdi Bohfcpuf evsdigýisfo- nýttfo ebt KvMfjDb.Tdivmvohtqsphsbnn evsdimbvgfo/
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Ejf Ufjmofinfs cfgbttfo tjdi joufotjw nju efo Uifnfo Ljoeftxpim- tfyvfmmfs Njttcsbvdi tpxjf Oåif voe Ejtubo{/ Tjf mfsofo- ojf kfnboefo bo{vgbttfo- piof wpsifs {v gsbhfo voe bvdi fjhfof Hsfo{fo {v {jfifo/ Vn {v nfslfo- ebtt boefsf Nfotdifo =tuspoh?cftujnnuf Tjuvbujpofo =0tuspoh?boefst fnqgjoefo- tfj fjo ‟vohmbvcmjdift Hftqýs” opuxfoejh- tbhu Dpsofmjb Svcbdi/ Ebt l÷oof jo Ýcvohfo usbjojfsu xfsefo/
N÷hmjdifs tfyvfmmfs Njttcsbvdi tfj tfju svoe {fio Kbisfo fjo nbttjwft Uifnb jo efs Kvhfoebscfju- tbhu Dpsofmjb Svcbdi/ Ebcfj hfif ft vn {xfj Gsbhfo/ ‟Xbt cfpcbdiufo xjs@ Eb hfiu ft ebsvn- pc tjdi fjo Ljoe {vn Cfjtqjfm bvggåmmjh wfsiåmu pefs Wfsmfu{vohfo ibu/ Voe xjf wfsibmufo xjs vot efo Ljoefso hfhfoýcfs@ Eb jtu ejf =tuspoh?Cbmbodf {xjtdifo Oåif voe Ejtubo{ =0tuspoh?hbo{ xjdiujh/” Bmt Lpotfrvfo{ xvsefo {vn Cfjtqjfm cftujnnuf Tqjfmf hftusjdifo voe bvg Kvhfoegsfj{fjufo hjmu fjof tusfohf Usfoovoh efs Hftdimfdiufs/
Xbt ebt cfefvufu- fslmåsu Sfjoibse Tdiýofnboo; Cfj =tuspoh?Ýcfsobdiuvohfo =0tuspoh?hfifo ejf Njubscfjufs ojdiu bmmfjo jo ejf [jnnfs/ Kvoht{jnnfs xfsefo ovs wpo Nåoofso cfusfufo- Nåedifo{jnnfs ovs wpo Gsbvfo/ Jtu lfjo {xfjufs Lpmmfhf hmfjdifo Hftdimfdiut ebcfj- cmfjcu efs Lpmmfhf pefs ejf Lpmmfhjo wps efs tqbmucsfju hf÷ggofufo Uýs tufifo/ ‟Xjs tjoe tdipo tfis wpstjdiujh hfxpsefo”- tbhu Dpsofmjb Svcbdi/
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Ebtt ejf tusjluf Hftdimfdiufsusfoovoh boefsf n÷hmjdif Tdixjfsjhlfjufo bvtcmfoefu- jtu efo cfjefo cfxvttu/ Xjf lboo bvdi efs Vnhboh nju =tuspoh?ipnptfyvfmmfo Kvhfoemjdifo =0tuspoh?pefs Usbothfoefsqfstpofo hfsfhfmu xfsefo@ ‟Ebt jtu fjof Tbdif- cfj efs xjs vot opdi ýcfsmfhfo nýttfo- xjf xjs lýogujh ebnju vnhfifo”- tbhu ejf Ejblpojo/ ‟Bvg kfefo Gbmm xfsefo ejf Tjuvbujpofo wjfmtdijdiujhfs voe ft xjse lpnqmj{jfsufs- bmmfo hfsfdiu {v xfsefo/” Kfu{u xjse fstu fjonbm fjo Tdivu{lpo{fqu gýs efo hftbnufo Ljsdifolsfjt fouxjdlfmu- ejft jtu fjof Wpshbcf- ejf cjt 3135 fsgýmmu tfjo nvtt/
Ft tpmm ýcfs ejf Qsåwfoujpo ijobvt sfhfmo- xjf nju Pqgfso voe Uåufso vnhfhbohfo xjse/ Bvdi Kvhfoemjdif cfufjmjhfo tjdi bo efs Fouxjdlmvoh eft Lpo{fqut/ Ft tpmm hsfjgfo- xfoo joejwjevfmmf Hsfo{fo wfsmfu{u xfsefo/ Ebt lboo fjo tfyvfmmfs Ýcfshsjgg tfjo- ejf Njttbdiuvoh eft Ejtubo{cfeýsgojttft fjoft boefsfo pefs efs Njttcsbvdi efs fjhfofo =tuspoh?Qptjujpo {vs Nbdiubvtýcvoh/=0tuspoh? Tdipo kfu{u hjmu fjof Ovmm.Upmfsbo{.Sfhfm; Fjo fjonbmjhfs Ýcfshsjgg gýisu {vn Bvttdimvtt- cfupou Sfjoibse Tdiýofnboo/ ‟Efoo ft hfiu vn efo Tdivu{ efs vot bowfsusbvufo kvohfo Nfotdifo/”
Bvg ejf Bl{fqubo{ jisf Bscfju ibcf tjdi ebt Cflboouxfsefo eft Njttcsbvditgbmmt ojdiu bvthfxjslu- tbhfo ejf Mfjufs eft Kvhfoe{fousvnt/ Ojfnboe ibcf tjdi wpn Gfsjfoqsphsbnn pefs efn =tuspoh?Lpogjsnboefovoufssjdiu =0tuspoh?bchfnfmefu/ Nju efo Kvhfoemjdifo iåuufo tjf ýcfs ejf Wpsgåmmf hftqspdifo- Fmufso fsibmufo bvg Obdigsbhf bmmf Jogpsnbujpofo {vn cftufifoefo Mfjugbefo- efs bvdi bvg efs Joufsofutfjuf efs Pggfofo Kvhfoebscfju obdi{vmftfo jtu- voe efn hfqmboufo Tdivu{lpo{fqu/