Corona und die Liebe

Wie Singles und Paare die Pandemie meistern

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Der Wunsch nach einem Partner ist während der Corona-Pandemie über alle
Altersklassen hinweg gestiegen.

Der Wunsch nach einem Partner ist während der Corona-Pandemie über alle Altersklassen hinweg gestiegen.

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Die Studie einer Hamburger Online-Partnervermittlung zeigt: Der Lockdown hat nicht nur negative Effekte auf die Liebe.

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Kennenlernen ist durch den Lockdown schwerer als in normalen Zeiten

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Statt über Hobbys werde inzwischen häufig über Corona-Themen gesprochen

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Zwei gegensätzliche Trends

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Nachfrage an Paartherapie in der Corona-Zeit gestiegen

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Nicht zu streng miteinander sein

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Positive Erlebnisse schaffen

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