Reinhild Fürstenberg

„Chefs müssen für gute Stimmung sorgen ...“

Lesedauer: 9 Minuten
Reinhild Fürstenberg gründete
1989 mit ihrem
Mann das gleichnamige Institut.

Reinhild Fürstenberg gründete 1989 mit ihrem Mann das gleichnamige Institut.

Foto: Michael Rauhe

... sagt die Gründerin des nach ihr benannten Instituts, das sich um die seelische Gesundheit von Führungskräften kümmert.

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