Sozialpädagogik

Die Wahrheit über die Computersucht

Blass, nervös und isoliert: Computersüchtige haben ihr Leben nicht mehr im Griff. Ein Berliner Sozialpädagoge berichtet auf WELT ONLINE von seinen Begegnungen mit besonders heftigen Fällen – und erklärt, wie er den PC-Junkies neue Hoffnung gegeben hat.

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