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Hebamme verrät „Die Wahrheit übers Kinderkriegen“

Lesedauer: 6 Minuten
Anne Dewitz

Livia Görner hat in 30 Jahren als Beleghebamme in Pinneberg und Hamburg 4000 Babys entbunden und über ihre zum Teil skurrilen Erfahrungen ein Buch geschrieben, welches sie in Pinneberg vorstellte.

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